As the year comes to a close, many of us start thinking about the people who support our daily lives in big and small ways throughout the year. From caregivers and service providers to the familiar faces who help care for our homes, families, and personal routines, the holidays are a natural moment to pause and say thank you.
Tipping isn’t about obligation, it’s about appreciation.
This guide is meant to make holiday tipping feel easier and more intentional. The amounts below are suggestions, not rules. Every relationship, budget, and level of service is different, and what matters most is the gratitude behind the gesture.
Home & Family Support
Cleaning Service
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Typical: One week’s pay
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Alternative: A thoughtful gift or gift card if you don’t use them weekly
Full-Time Nanny
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Standard: One week’s pay
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More generous: Two weeks’ pay, or one week’s pay plus paid time off
Regular Babysitter
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$25–$50 cash or a gift card
Teachers
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$25 gift card, often paired with a small handwritten note or something thoughtful from your child
(Always check school or district gifting policies.)
Kids’ Coaches or Activity Instructors
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Small gift or gift card, ideally from the child
Regular Dog Walker
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One week’s pay
Pet Sitter
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One service’s cost or a meaningful gift
Delivery & Household Services
Package Delivery Drivers (UPS, FedEx, Amazon)
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$25–$50 for consistent or high-volume deliveries
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A snack basket or drinks can also be appreciated
Mail Carrier
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Federal guidelines limit cash gifts to $20
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Many people opt for a gift card or small, thoughtful present
Dry Cleaner / Tailor
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$10–$20 gift card, cash tip, or a small holiday treat
Personal Care & Wellness
Hair Stylist / Barber
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The cost of one service
Nail Technician / Waxing Professional
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The cost of one service
Massage Therapist
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The cost of one session
Personal Trainer / Fitness Instructor
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The cost of one session, or a gift if you see them regularly
A Few Common Questions
Do I have to tip?
No. Holiday tipping is customary, not required. A heartfelt note or small gift can be just as meaningful.
Should tips vary by service length or frequency?
Yes. Someone who’s been part of your routine all year will typically receive more than someone you see occasionally.
Is cash always best?
Cash is often appreciated, but gift cards, baked goods, or handwritten notes can also go a long way, especially when paired with sincere thanks.
At the end of the day, tipping is simply one way to acknowledge the people who make everyday life easier. Whether your gesture is big or small, thoughtfulness and gratitude are what truly matter.
If you have questions about navigating holiday traditions, neighborhood norms, or anything home-related this season, we’re always here as a resource.
